Our Shared Agreements

These are the commitments that hold our space. They flow from our Core Philosophy and shape how we show up together. For the full picture of what this means in practice, see Experience Structure.

Being Together: Our Shared Agreements #

We made a few agreements to keep this space honest, safe, and kind.

  • Consent comes first, always. Get it clearly, give it freely, and tune in to words and silence. Be grateful when someone trusts you with their truth.
  • Respect the humans around you. Every person here carries a story. Be mindful, be curious, ask before touching, and honor pronouns.
  • Speak what’s real. Say what you mean and hear what’s said. When things feel tender, choose clarity as a form of care.
  • Stay present. Let the outside world wait. Be here with your body, your breath, and your attention.
  • Own your impact. We all fuck up; what matters is what you do next. Apologize, repair, learn, and grow.
  • Play with awareness. Kink, sex, and BDSM are welcome here, but never at the cost of safety or consent. Know your edges, respect others’, and be gentle with power.
  • Take care of yourself. Eat, hydrate, rest, and ask for what you need. You’re not here to push through—you’re here to be whole.

Generosity as Love in Action #

Be generous.
Offer what you can: your time, your skills, your mischief, your warmth.

What counts as participation? All of it.

  • Chopping onions
  • Hanging lights
  • Tidying the space
  • Holding someone who needs to cry
  • Tying rope, sharing a song, offering your favorite snack at 3am

There is no competition here. No one gets a gold star. Contribution looks different for everyone — and that’s the point.

Whether you’re a helper, a dreamer, a mischief-maker, or someone who simply holds the energy of care in a space… you belong.

See these agreements in action → Experience Structure — How these commitments shape our five days together

Understand the foundation → Core Philosophy — The values behind these agreements

Wondering if this is for you? → Is This For You? — Self-assessment for newcomers

See who thrives here → Who Belongs Here — Radical inclusivity and clear boundaries